Dreamer’s Journals

Haahh..its suterday…akhirnya bagian anak selesai jugaa..bagian yang aneh, sehari-harinya nyantai..tapi giliran pas deket ujian..Stressnya gak ketulungan..BUT..i have an uncommon luck di bagian anak..Pertama: sejak bagian anak tingkat 4 sampe tingkat 5..gue gak pernah dapet preskas..tingkat 4 cuman komenttor..sedangkan tingkat 5 cuman dapet PSSS..kedua..kalo masalah penguji..tingkat 4 gue dapet yang gak kayak ujian, mahal lebih mudah dari bedside teaching..cuman ditanyain satu hal, trus gue juga gak tau..dan setelah itu ya selesai..gak ditanya apa2 lagi..dan langsug lulus..buset dah…

Di tingkat 5..pertama gue kena ama dosen dari radiology anak..dia baik..dan seharusnya tetep gak masalah..tapi..sehari sebelum hari H..penguji gue diganti dengan yang LEBIH DIIDAM IDAMKAN lagi ama anak2..(si infamous dari bagian neurology anak) pasti anak FK pada tau hehe..yaa..emang sih, bukan brarti pertanyaan die gampang..masih banyak juga yang gue gak kepikiran ngejawabnya..tapi bukannya gue gak tau, cuman kondisi ujian yang bikin otak jadi mandek..sebenrnya udah tau, cuman gak keluar aja :P  semua orang bilang gue si Hokky boy..BUT..LET ME TELL U WHAT THE LUCKY BOY HAS TO SAID..despite my luck..bukan brarti gue nyantai2..gue tetep kebangsal sehari sebelum ujian dimulai, ngelakuin survei tentang semua pasien yang ada..setelah pulang gue langsung blajar sampe jam 3 pagi..dan bangun jam 4.15..(dan gue gak yakin selama 1,5 jem itu gue tidur, mungkin cuman merem melek muter kiri kanan)..gue dateng ke bangsal paling pagi..JAM 5.45..dan jem 6 kurang disaat belum ada satu pun mahasiswa lain dateng, gue udah  mulai anamnesis..Yes..i might be lucky..but still..i do MORE EFFORT..thus deserve it..Emang sih, ada satu pertanyaan yang gue sama skali gak jawab yaitu MTBS..gue bahkan gak tau kepanjangannya..why??soalnya gue gak fotocopy "barang" itu (ketebelan, bikin bangkrut), jadi gue gak punya..dan gue gak liat kalo dilembar penilaian ada tentang MTBS..maklum, gue adalah orang yang belajar semau gue..tapi kalo gue tau bahwa itu bakal dinilai dan gue punya barangnya juga pasti gue apal..toh isinya sama dengan buku WHO yang tiap hari gue pegang..cuman dibuat dalam versi lokal :S

Humm..okay, there are some interesting things which i learn about children and babies, related to their psycological development..i will describe it here so it will be usefull for anyone who read it, including girls..(future mother)..But..what i write here is just a fraction of the whole knowledge..thus can’t be used as refference, but more as common sense

Psycological:

First 5 years are the most important period for their personality development..at these ages, their brains plasticity are at most (the actual peak is at the age of 3)..when their age reach more then 5, most of their basic personalities are formed, change are still possible, but will take much effort, and it will gets harder when their older..

Do not prohibit your child to play with anything that he/she wanted unless it could endangered him/her..instead, encourage them..always stimulate them to play with anything u got..Child at this age aren’t suitable with rules..they should be let free..any restriction or punishment will have bad long term result..at first, he/she may look like a good discipline controllable child..but as they grow older, u also will see that they will lost some of their confidence, courage, and creativity..of course its not a 2 + 2 = 4 formula, but it does significantly effect their personality

The rules or right handed are a false rule..our brain works in these manner so that the left brain handles mainly logic, memory, verbal understanding, numbers, work systematiclly, and it controls our right side of the body..While the right brain works differently, they controls our left body part and has many role in crativity and some other important feature which i forgot (-_-)..My teacher once ask me :"if u gave a toy to a baby, which hand will they use to take it"..he said, its left..why??Coz child are born to be creative..have u seen a child play??anything can be their toy..anything is possible to them..humans are supose to have a great crativity..thats what makes them the earth conquerer (a little bit off-topic dont u think)..but what does the mother do when she saw a child using their left hand?? "Shoo..use ur right hand instead!!"..they said left hand are for "cebok" (red) hahaha..

DO NOT..seriously..DO NOT ENTER YOUR CHILD TO KINDERGARTEN THAT OFFERS U MULTIPLE LANGUAGE PROGRAM..WHY??Children at this age should be restricted to 2 language only..formal language (B indonesia kalo disini), and Mother language (anything that u use commonly at home: Jawa, Sunda, Inggris, Mandarin, Hokkian)..if u want them to study more..they should start at over 5 years old..coz they need to strengthed their basic language before start to learn the other language..Those kindergarten are only looking for your CASH..they don’t think its effect to the children..this language thingy that i write is suggested by a Child Psyciatry Specialist..so it is valid

Quote:

"Child has one spirit that flows freely..it called "enthusiasm"..When a child is playing..a plastic soldier came to life and a doll can speak..give them a crayon, and they’ll draw anything that comes to their head..when thay are taught that Jesus are God, they came to Him with joy, just because they want to, and they happy to..they have no question, and yet, no doubt"

Learned from Paolo Coelho’s "The Pilgrimage"..why i said learned??because i forgot the exact words

This entry was posted on Saturday, April 14th, 2007 at 1:56 am and is filed under Medicine. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can skip to the end and leave a response. Pinging is currently not allowed.